Scott's Siu Lum Kuen Adult Program Positive Behavior Skills Personal Skills - Serve the good of the group, be considerate of others. - Respect & support the leadership. - Respect other cultures and beliefs. - Be kind, open hearted and practice equality. - Do your share and stay organized. - Admit to your mistakes, and work at correcting them. - Help others, but don't do their work for them. - Speak up when needed, and be quiet when needed. - When speaking use the "I" language. In other words speak for yourself not for others. - Ask clear questions. - Work hard and have fun. Positive Self Leadership Tasks - Take responsibility for yourself and your own learning. - If something needs doing, do it. - If you don't understand, ask appropriate questions to find out. - Enjoy your surroundings, and maintain your sense of humor. - Help others succeed. - Push yourself. - Admit to your mistakes and be honest, own what you say. - If it is not safe for the group, don't do it. - Learn from your experiences. Adversity Skills - Learn to enjoy and endure challenges and turn them into positive opportunities. - See choices as numerous options and combinations, not either/or. - Flow without resistance with things that you can not control. - Use humor to lighten situations and keep things in perspective. Self-Awareness Skills - Try to understand your abilities and limitations. - Learn from experience and try to improve. - Be clear and honest with others. - Seek feedback. Active Skills - Initiate - Motivate (can do attitude) - Stay open and flexible. - Have empathy and support equality for others. --------------------------------------------- 4 Martial Virtues Discipline Restraint Humility Respect 4 Vital Qualities Loyalty Trustworthy Equality Righteousness Back